I can't believe I just clicked that button. I've thought about it in the past, but today I did it.
I deactivated my Facebook account.
For a while now, I've been wishing that I could slip out of the Facebook grid for a time, but felt guilty about permanently removing my FB presence from so many people.
Until today.
Today, I realized that I could go back to where I was by simply logging back in with the same user login info. Who knew!? Well, that made the choice easier. So I did it. One obvious answer would be "For someone as social as you, why did you do it?"
I'm sure there are truly a number of reasons. But in case anyone is wondering, no, I am not depressed, suicidal, or anything of that nature. I'm sure it's natural to assume something is
really wrong when a self-proclaimed (and assessment-proven) sanguine person such as myself would disconnect from the world's biggest social network. But just so everyone who knows me knows, I am just fine. Really. I mean it, I'm fine. Stop looking at me like that, I said I was fine. ;-p
Anyway, in all seriousness... here are a few reasons:
- I wanted to experience the freedom to exert control over whether anyone could look into a big online repository of my personal life for a while. Call me a control freak, but I just wanted to make sure I could feel in control of my identity in the online world of Facebook.
- I want to experience not being on Facebook for a while. I think I've been participating for about the last 4-to-5 years, so it's nice to just take a break. Vacation, baby!
- I can go back to having a presence, just the way it was, so no big deal bowing out for a little while, right?
- I've realized that I used to really love blogging, but since becoming a Facebook user, my blogging had all but vanished. I want to write something meaningful and personal, and have folks engage me within the context of topical intent, not just the all-powerful 'news feed' within FB. Besides, the conversations tend to be pretty short within FB. I want to be inspired to connect over substance again.
- I'm not required to use Facebook. ;)
So, there you have it. I'm going off of Facebook. How long, I don't know. And even when/if I fire up my account again, it will most likely be for the sake of the people I know, and to propagate my
Tweets and
Blog(
s) to my network instead of just the occasional FB comments.
Time will tell. Thanks for taking the time to read this post, and I invite you to comment away!